Oh well.. look what you've done..

Well done.. your narrow mindedness and your inability to look far have cause your mum to feel even more alone then ever.. instead of trying to save the situation without hurting their relationship, you chose to stubbornly follow you ways without thinking of other factors. Now that you've return to your husband's side in some other country, your mum has to face everything alone by herself. After her retirement, she don't have the luxury of talking to colleagues anymore and can only rely on the company of relatives & her sisters, who may not be free all the time because they have their own family to attend to as well.. I really should congratulate you on this. She can't even do the only thing she likes anymore, and that is to cook, she can only cook for herself, which I doubt brings her much joy. She eats alone, goes out alone & you can bet there won't be any reunion dinners or lunch anytime soon.. You've made things worse for your poor mother.. You didn't even spare a thought of how your own mum would feel about her own two children fight and having what is left of her own family falling apart.. no mother, actually is no parents would ever want to see their own family fall apart.. it breaks their hearts and make them feel that they have failed miserably in being a parent.. and yes, I still stand by my statement that you are really ignorant for an adult and have no ability to see far.. BRAVO!